11.20.2009

13-21 !!

Whoa. I have a lot I'd like to blog about, and really wanted to do this Blessing Blog daily this month. HAHAHA. Let's just say I've been busy.

13- I am grateful for Sisters. For all the women in my life that have had, or will have that role. Whether by birth, marriage, or pure survival bonding us together. For Irene who calls me, even though I'm horrible at calling her. For Melissa, who joined our family in a whirlwind and I'm so glad she did. For Emily, my baby sister who seems to like us as much as we like her, and has rightfully earned the title of Favorite Aunt to my kiddos. For Trisha, who lets me feel needed and is a fellow mother-of-kids-the-same-size-as-mine. For Bekah, whose fun detail oriented mind keeps the parties WAY nicer than anything I can pull off. For Helen, a wonderfully gracious woman. For Shelly, her smiles and spunk made me feel loved when my other sisters went so far away. For Leigh she's quiet, beautiful, and amazing, I just wish I knew her better. I'd love to spend more time with some of my sisters and get to know them better. It seems I blinked and suddenly I was surrounded by amazing women. Some new in my life, some just a lot more grown up. I am so grateful for my sisters.

14-I am grateful for second hand clothes. Why pay full price when it will look used just as soon as you wear it?? Hand-me-downs have really been a blessing for me. I have 2 little boys, and I've been blessed with lots of boy clothes, so that I don't really need to buy any play clothes at all. And this week, I had a neighbor give me a bag full of size 12 pants. Hurray!! Because those size 10s? Vanity sized. And those 14s? too big. Now I have pants that will fit me and my legs will not turn blue from frostbite.

15- I am grateful for Bountiful Baskets. I've been wishing I could join a produce co-op for years, but there weren't any in the area. Bountiful Baskets came to Cedar City in September, and I picked up my first basket on Halloween. Basically with a large group of people contributing we are able to buy produce at the same price the store gets it. I don't get to pick and choose, but I do get a large basket of produce for an excellent price.

16- I am grateful for a yeast infection that plagues my belly button. I don't know, don't ask. But if I've been eating too much sugar, boy oh boy does the flaming itch on my navel motivate me to change my ways.

17- I am grateful to be a nursing mom. So what if I'm super saggy and deflated, so what if I can't just run off for a whole week? I've lost all of my Willard-baby weight, plus an extra 30 pounds. And Aunt Flo hasn't come-a-calling for at least 13 months. (What is with that one random cycle 2 months post-partum???) Do I miss her? No not really.

18- I am grateful for color. All my life, or at least all that I can remember, I've lived in homes with whitish walls. But when we painted Abby's room pink, wow. It is so very fun having a colorful room. So I think it may just be catching and spread all around the house. I love our colorful world, I always have. My Grandmother Langford had a beautiful flower garden always full of many colors. Staring into the eyes of my little family, I'm amazed by all the facets of color in that one little spot. How dull would life be without color?

19-I am grateful for my education. I may just have an Associates degree from a community-just-turned-state college, but it has served me well. I may have spent all of my time taking practically redundant classes on child-development, but those have served me well too. I've also learned a few things from my various jobs and assignments working in preschool and with special needs kids. My first teachers in that field were my baby brothers therapists. I owe them so much. Without all of the knowledge gleaned from these sources, I'd be completely befuddled in Nursery. Some days, I still am.

20-I am grateful for dirty dishes. I am grateful for food thrown in the garbage can. I am grateful for hours spent in the kitchen. It means we have an incredible bounty of food to eat.

21- I am grateful for my Mother-In-Law. I think I have the best one in the world, really. She loves to spoil the kids, but her version is taking them outside and playing. She will do what I rarely condescend to and pretend to be whatever animal strikes Abby's fancy at the moment. She encourages dirt, thought, music, and imagination. She never tells us how to run our lives. (Well except to say that she thinks we shouldn't sell our car, but that is always a suggestion, not an order). And best of all, she raised the awesom-est sons in the world. They pitch in, they rock babies, they are gnetleman to the core, they respect their mother, but they put their wives first. There is only one left and he's just 18, sorry ladies.


11.12.2009

Counting My Blessings 10-12

(This is totally harder than I thought it would be, sorry I'm not more consistent)

10-I am grateful for Kindergarten. Abby is having a wonderful time learning at school, making new friends, picking up on new things, interacting with OTHER people. I have had the opportunity to go and assist at the start of class a few times, and it really is so much fun working with little kids on classroom stuff again. It reminds me of when I was assisting at the DSC preschool, the kids are cute, friendly and oh-so-bright. Harvey tags along with Abby while I'm doing the parent-job and is none too happy when we leave. Willard gets into everything, I am going to have to figure out something else before I take him back in there. Abby has started sounding out and reading simple words. Today she read 'facts, moon, from, cheerios' and a few others. She also is starting to write out simple sentences to label her pictures 'early at school' looks like this 'R L Y A T SOSL' Personally I thought her spelling of early was dead on for sounding it out (and super cute). She is struggling some with counting to 30, she gets completely tripped up in the teens. If she remembers 14 and 15, the next in line is usually 51, lol. But we are going to practice some with the calendar. Which totally makes her giddy because her birthday is coming up very, very soon. I'm grateful for all that Kindergarten has offered Abby. I'm also grateful for the opportunity I have to bond with Harvey. I'll admit right up that reading blogs and For Better or For Worse usually takes most of my time. But today I unplugged the TV, and read to Harvey. We got sleepy holding each other in the rocker, and went to lay down on my bed. Harvey fell asleep and took a nap, for the first time in FOREVER. And he has still gone to bed at a decent hour. Oh yes, I am very grateful for Kindergarten.

11- I am grateful for my gym membership. I know I need to make better use of it, and as I sit here relaxing in my post-Pilates Class euphoria, I wonder why I hadn't gone in so long. There are many reasons for it, most of which can be classed under timing. But I've got to get back in there. Not only is it essential if I am to have any chance at all of shrinking my saggy baggy elephant skin. But the effects are almost as good as a massage. I can relax, my body stiffness almost melts away, I can get up and out of bed without silently cursing my various achy spots. Not that I wouldn't still appreciate a nice foot or back rub, but in general I feel much better. Ironic as it may sound, I also have more energy and fewer munchies. When Abby was a baby I was able to put her in the stroller and go for a walk on a nearby trail. Now that there are three kids and no trail, I am so very grateful for a gym membership. Now does anybody want to be my gym buddy??

12- I am grateful for my Bosch Mixer. And my NutriMill. We are out of bread right now, I made a double batch last week and it all got eaten that weekend. So tomorrow I need to mix up some fresh bread. And I am so glad I've got a mixer with the muscle to pull it off. When I first started making bread I was using my Kitchen Aid and although it is a nice mixer it could only do a half batch of bread at a time. Neither did it have the power to knead whole wheat dough until is was nice and smooth, so I got to do that. Whenever I got sick of that process and decided to buy bread, we'd go to church within a week and taste once again Sister Fife's bread. (Her son was bringing their bread to be used for the Sacrament.) ONE bite and I would automatically thing, "mmmm, real food". Now, I can't afford to buy 3 or 4 dollar loaves of real bread, so I make it. And I am very grateful for my Bosch mixer, which will take 12-16 cups of whole wheat flour and knead it into beautifully smooth dough. Dough that makes pretty decent bread. If I don't mess it up. :D

(Now that I've done that, I can remember a beautiful list of blog worthy blessings. Hopefully I'll still remember tomorrow!)

11.09.2009

Counting Blessings-9th

9th Blessing- I am so truly grateful for Jeff and his work. Jeff has an amazing work ethic, and always has. It is a good thing because it offsets my procrastinating lazy self. Jeff has a good job, with great employers. He loves to work with them, and even though they put him on salary they let him work on the side for some extra. Because of this I am able to stay home and tend to my kids. Most women I know have had to get at least one job (many full time) to make ends meet in this economy. Jeff works hard with a good job and it pays all of our bills. I may often wish for more fun stuff/shopping in our budget, but really that is so unimportant. Jeff is good at what he does and loves finding challenges at work. It's a job that we can see keeping us here in Cedar City for life. A strange thing to imagine for me, but it is a lovely place for us to put down roots. Sometimes I feel like grumbling because of long hours, but Jeff tries to spend most of his non-working time with us. Several times he has turned down a men only activity in favor of staying home with us. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful and hardworking husband. Definitely one of my greatest blessings.

11.08.2009

Counting Blessings

4th blessing- I am grateful we are a 2 car family. And I'm grateful I bought Abby 2 booster seats and a SKRadian before Willie was born. Because when the only key you have to the minivan disappears and you are supposed to be driving to St. George, it is nice to have another vehicle loaded with extra car seats to transport everyone in.

5th blessing- Sunshine. Really it is such beautiful glorious stuff. As is sending my kids out to play without having to run the gauntlet of snow gear. Yay for Indian summers.

6th blessing- Nap time. Specifically MY nap time.

7th blessing- A dog to walk because fresh air, a lovely sunset, and some time to myself can be hard to come by otherwise.

8th blessing- New days. Tomorrow is always another day, and I can start over again.


11.03.2009

Month of Gratitude and Counting Blessings

Wow, what a brilliant idea. I got the idea from DeNae at My Real Life Was Backordered. I've been needing to count my blessings anyways. So for this month there will be at least 30 things I'm grateful for. One per day. Maybe more because I do have quite a list, and I'm going to try and name them one by one. Will you please fill up the comment boxes with some things that you are grateful for???

Nov 1st- This day I was especially grateful for Sacrament Meeting. Specifically Testimony meeting. I got to sit in Sacrament meeting with all of Jeff's brothers and sisters, I got to hear the wonderful testimonies of his mother and grandmother. And wondrously, the very first person who got up to bear a testimony was not a family member and spoke directly to me. About Counting Blessings (imagine that). I'm even grateful for FASTING. I pulled it off for the first time in probably 2 years, I tried once earlier but was nursing too often and got sick. Now that we are weaning I was able to fast, and it was wonderful. So there you go, I am GRATEFUL for Fast Sunday.

Nov 2nd- I am grateful for Doctors and generally good health. Harvey had a frightful coughing fit last night, and I got him an appointment in the morning. It's just and ear infection/sinusitis. No pneumonia, but if it was starting then the antibiotics for the earache should help any infection in the respiratory too. Despite the weeks of snot and coughs, there have been no fevers. Jeff is well and able to work. I am well and able to care for the kids. Abby is well and able to go to school. The boys, well they will be well soon!

Nov 3rd- I am grateful for my Saggy Baggy Elephant skin. Ok, really I hate it. But I'm grateful for it too. Why??? Well because, it's a mark of something I had to overcome. It's a mark of general improvement that I never thought was possible. I certainly hope that weight training will reduce the saggy baggies. It may never, but until it does I will be grateful that I no longer fill that skin so well. My kids may never need to be grateful for saggy baggies of their own.

11.02.2009

Pictures!!

So I found my camera, uploaded the pictures, and here are mys super cute kids, and what they've been up to since umm August. :S

Abby wanted me to do her hair in a STAR. This was what I came up with, it isn't particularly good, but it was fun trying. Maybe this weekend we'll try again.
Her idea. Completely hers. Well actually, Harvey was quite agreeable.
Yes, she actually did succeed in pulling both of her brothers in the bike trailers. Smart, strong, clever girl!
My goofy little trick-or-treaters
Yes, that's more like it. Lovable, sweet, darling children.
Our Unicorn Keeper. Yes, I made the costume. Blood, sweat and tears (lots of tears) went into that robe. But it worked out in the end and she loved it.
Super Harvey!!! He kills bad cows, lol . He is so wonderfully imaginative. It's a boy thing I guess, but he always wants to be killing something or other. Why Super Harvey gets bad COWS I have no idea.
Yep I made the cape for this one too, and it turned out quite nicely if I do say so myself. No tears.
Tiger Cub. It was Abby's, then Harvey's. I don't quite dare say it- but I think my kids keep getting cuter. Is this not the cutest little boy anyone has ever seen? I mean really- sparkly eyes, toothy sweet grin. Freeze time here please. I can't bear the thought of him growing up.
A shot I got on his Birthday. He keeps trying to grab the camera when he sees it.

10.22.2009

Ode to October 2009 (so far)

Crisp Fall Air
Beautiful colors
Apple and Pumpkin; Apple and Pumpkin!
Birthday Shopping!!
Size 10 pants?? Yes, really.
Conference and Inspiration
Baby Steps, walking baby.
Hopes, dreams, aspirations, goals
St.George Marathon by 2012
Dissapointments and tears
Baby Elephant at Hogle Zoo
Homemade Costumes
Cousins playing
Full nights sleep
Children playing in the wind
Mother staying busy- but a good busy